Mumma,
It doesn’t feel like a year since you left us, yet I can remember that day like it was only yesterday, and every day I miss you more and more. I can’t believe that I have existed for a whole year in a world that you don’t, and that the hole in my chest hasn’t swallowed me up.
Im sorry when I get angry with you. I know that you didn’t mean to hurt us, but sometimes I can’t believe that you would leave me to face all my challenges alone. But I am never angry for long, because I remember when the pain replaced the sparkle in your eyes, and know that you tried your hardest to fight your way through, but the darkness was just overwhelming and you saw no other way out. My biggest hope is that wherever you are, you have found peace.
We are doing okay down here. We’ve kind of formed a team, and we are all looking after each other. I’m going to rehab, so that I can get back into my wheelchair, and then we will be able to find somewhere peaceful to put you to rest.
The wedding is drawing closer, and although we will all be aware of the empty chair in the room, we will still celebrate them just like you you would have done. Oh, and don’t worry, I’ve taken on your role of nagging mark to get things done, and we are getting there!
I would trade everything I own to have just 60 seconds with you. For one last hug, to hear you say that you love me, and for me to say that I love you back. I’d stare at your face to take in every inch, and I’d listen to your voice, because I am so scared of the day they begin to fade from my memory.
Moo joined you the other day and at the moment all I feel is pain, but knowing that she is probably there sitting on your lap is my only comfort. I know you will take care of my baby, like you took care of me in life, and I cling on to the hope that when she died she knew she was loved.
Thank you so much for being my mum, and not only that, but my best friend too.
Mark has become such a good man, and he is an absolute credit to you.
Thank you for always being there for us, and raising us both with such unconditional love.
I miss you mum x